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Chit, Chat & Chewing the Fat
An unsurprisingly large number of the experts, professionals and scientists that I know candidly tell me that they find simple social settings with people to be the roughest of all to deal with. Many of them really hate small talk and boy, can I relate. I ran across the following that does a swell job of explaining why it feels so uncomfortable for many of us:
And for my fellow schmooze-averse friends and colleagues, here are some basic ideas about how to handle those informal situations…
There is a point to all of this: the goal is to help you create encounters that lead from possibly less-than-comfortable mundane talks to actual meaningful, enjoyable and rewarding conversations:
As most of the public communication that you produce is probably written, I expect that you find yourself dancing back and forth between writing for colleagues and bosses and writing for real human beings. The real humans don’t normally read or speak the language that you use internally. This is a challenge:
This is another one of those stories focused on business that, in my opinion, is equally at home in government. How bad is your writing and what’s it costing you in credibility?
I’m a big fan of this guy (Eric Barker) and this is one of the better articles I’ve seen on better writing. As such, I suggest you better read it:
Each of us is writing for all kinds of new media that didn’t exist a short time ago; people read differently than they used to. Here’s how to write for it:
And while we’re on the subject of new media, you might consider the following from the TPC Blog:
When Your Gatherings are a Train Wreck
There may be times when you’re faced with an unfixable mess. In spite of your advance work, issue and stakeholder assessment, planning, outrage prevention and best overall efforts, you suddenly realize that you’ve been set up for failure and you’re dealing with one or more true psychopaths. Some sound advice:
While we’re on the subject of the lowest of humanity, it would be helpful for you to be able to recognize people who fall into that category. Here are some things to look for…
We live in an angry world and work with frustrated people. Helping you navigate these waters is our business. However, if you only have time for a 60-second piece of advice, then read this:
So to Speak
Almost all of us started babbling as toddlers, so it’s normal for most people to think that getting their point across is second nature. We all have things to learn:
The content coming from your mouth isn’t all you need to worry about…in fact, it may actually be the least important. Your presence is a big deal:
I realize that you’re thinking about what you have to say; however, here’s what not to say:
Conflict Resolution Strategies & Conflict Resolution Techniques
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